So accurate it hurts.(via queeringfeministreality)
Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.
Joe Haldeman (via maxkirin)
Just choked on my fucking drink
- parent: why hasn't ____ been round lately? I thought you were friends
- me: well they turned into a cunt
i guess i recorded an ice bucket challenge today after i got my wisdom teeth out ??